... Random Update...

Alright it's yet another week and here's my little post update.

This past week has been a bit on and off actually, but mostly on.
I took a day off work last Monday and headed to The Department of Home Affairs to collect my passport and brand new smart card ID, and fortunately it didn't take all day.

YAY!!

• One of my colleagues, came back from Maternity leave and oh was I excited to see her again after such a long 4 months ...Her baby daughter Zuri is soo adorable and looks so much like Aunty K ;).

• I was able to go to varsity to register for the next semester, and oh well.. the money they need. Holly Molie its like they guarantee you a job with that.

• I got to spend a wonderful candle-lit evening with Him, not because Romance but because Cable Theft.. LOL. 

• I went home to see my mom and little sisters, and I had lovely time with them. They were very excited to see me and because I'm a cool sister and an awesome daughter, I scored myself some cool brand new boots from Mommy dearest.

• Another part of my weekend was spent with my Bestie, she cooked for me!!! Yayyy. We also went to catch a very late movie at the Mall Of Africa, watched the hilarious Central Intelligence movie... I hadn't laughed so hard during a movie until then. We stayed up until around 3.am chattering the night away.

The weekend ended pretty quick but that's alright, we have another one coming up very soon and it looks so good already.

Oh and might I add, I still struggle with procrastination guys like what the hell hey?? I've been chanting in my head to go do my hair but oh noo, the laziness level be higher than the dedication. SMH I'm still working on it.

Well I hope you had yourself a lovely productive week too. If you don't mind, let me in on what you got up to on kokie.molebale@gmail.com, or maybe hit me up on Instagram and I'll see from your timeline the fun times you been having ;). 

Keep well til the next post. Thanks for reading, Me loves it!!!

WHO IS KOKIE MOLIE???

Hello darlings, just a reminder... nothing hectic and nothing deep.

My name is Kokie Molie (Koketso Molebale), 

and here is all you need to know about me (for now):

  
#SELFIESYNDROME

Oh don't worry, I do Smile... A lot!

So, I'm a Gauteng based lady in her 20's just in case I haven't mentioned this at all.
For those who don't know, Gauteng is one of the 9 provinces in South Africa... South Africa being one of the 54 countries in the African continent. Africa is one of the 7 continents of this Planet called Earth.
I'm not trying to be funny mentioning these countries and continents, I've just happened to come across a lot of people who actually and honestly thought Africa was a "country on it's own"(Zuma's voice *lol*)... It especially comes from people outside Africa, ignorance perhaps, or the probable government-selected education syllabuses. Well now you've been educated dear Earthlings #wink.

I was born on the 28th March, and am the eldest of 3 sisters.

US Three.

A little more about me is a few of my passions...
Music; Writing; Photography.

The love for Music runs from my very heart throughout my veins. It's a passion I was definitely born with because the memory of where it all began goes far back beyond my own reach. I find peace in Music; it soothes my soul, my mind and my heart.. In every emotion I find myself in, I wrap myself in music and I'm at peace with everything. I find beauty and fascination in the sounds made by the birds, the waters, and the winds.. Weird?

My Writing interest began at a very age, following rapidly growing stages of the love for reading. With this came an interest for 'imagery' (Photography), as it was through pictures that the words were created in my mind and inked on paper. I became fascinated with peaceful sights that spotting and capturing such images came naturally to me.

Random facts:

• I'm a sucker for Romance... I love the smell of old Books * I don't like eBooks * I prefer books before movies. I love Flowers, more especially Lilies and Roses.

• All-time favorite color is Green; Movie is The Notebook; and song is If Tomorrow Never Comes. 

I'm not big fan of cake, but I'd take 100% Chocolate cake any day. I love road-trips and adventures. I have Thalassophobia (fear of diving in or swimming in the ocean/sea). I can cook, I love wine.

• I'm crazy about the shapes of my Eyes and my Teeth. Apparently I Sing very well when convinced that no-one is listening. I'm both smoothly captivated and revived by Sunsets, Sunrises, Full-Moons, Stars, Raindrops and Rainbows. 

• When I'm stressed I sleep. When I'm worried I cry. When I'm upset I clean up.When I'm happy I talk TOO MUCH.

• I love being driven than driving***. Dogs are my absolute favorite animals. I have veeery few close friends, literally less than 5. I've never been out of South Africa, I've actually only recently gotten my passport.
• I have Pork Intolerance. I don't like Cheese, Liver, Peanut Butter, Olives, Pumpkin, Sweet Potato, Honey, Dumpling, Garlic, and Plain Yogurt.

Sometimes I love to think I'm a super model... LOL, don't judge:

 

 

More of Me on: 

Facebook - Kokie Molie

Instagram - Kokie.Molie

Twitter - @Kokie_Molebale

Snapchat - kokie.molie

SoundCloud - Kokie Molie

Reverbnation - Kokie Molie

YouTube - Koketso Molebale

LinkedIn - Koketso Molebale

Ok that's all... "Story Time #2" will follow soon.

A COME-BACK!!! (What really happened to me)

I feel so bad. I feel as though I've neglected my passion for writing.
Writing Inspiration comes and goes, and comes right back again... but in my situation it feels like it's been gone for too long. In the past 6 months I've only put up 1 post, one you guys, ONE!! :(

So I've been internally complaining about this, and it has been eating me up.. but being the hopeful me, I kept chanting that "I'm gonna do it soon.. I'm gonna do it soon" and then I never really do. Until now of-course and I think its basically because I voiced out my concerns last night. I finally broke the silence off and that must have inspired me because here I am.

Between my last blog post(which was posted on my other page, do check it out.. I'll put the link at the end of this post), so yes between then and now... I've generally been busying myself with my 9to5 and my school work, and at times I would get swamped and busy at work that I'd take some work home... and I'd get really depressed because my school work would fall behind so I would cry my eyes out cause I felt it was just too much and I couldn't take it anymore.
So anyway, I really can't think of anything else that I started and successfully finished besides those two. It's like I was cursed, seriously... I've had sooo many exciting ideas to doing creative things, and they all crumbled down because I never really took initiative to put them to life. So I always told myself that I was cursed with the spell of Procrastination, and I never knew how to break it. The 'old me' would blame all this on not having been going church for a while, but no it's not that, however the church matter will be discussed some other time. Today I'm definitely breaking this spell of Procrastination.

**One of the ideas I've been pondering about(for years actually), has been taking my photography passion to a whole new level. So I'm really passionate about "single-handedly" capturing breathtaking pictures of nature, or even arranging different suiting angles and atmospheres for amazing photographs. Last year I got myself the perfect cellphone for doing this, so I got the cellphone as opposed to a camera because I know it's always in my possession, it's portable and it's pretty modern. I guess I figured that  a 20.7 MP with autofocus at 1/2.3" sensor size, LED flash, HDR, panorama, touch focus, face-detection (Oh excuse me for going on and on, I can't help it I love this phone, lol ... and it's for nothing else but the camera features which also happens to work quiet well underwater).
So I'm definitely resuming that one idea up. I think though I'll need to get me a proper camera that'll be used for that alone, I may need a more professional device for this work than a sexy one.

**Another issue that's been bugging me is that I started writing a novel a while ago, and I've been stuck on this some chapter for a year now if not more. So clearly the delay-bug bit me long ago, way longer than I've been putting out. I swear I'd even procrastinate calling my close family and friends.

**Also, I may start vlogging soon... stay tuned up on my YouTube channel to see my videos.

I appreciate the people that get to the bottom of my posts, actually reading them. I feel like it's an amazing window-opportunity for me and you to connect, as you read my posts we link up in a way and that easily vanishes the barrier of us being strangers. Connect with me more, let's talk, let's link up(my contacts and all links to my social media accounts are found on my Google+ profile). We could become good friends, if you're a writer as well perhaps, you love music, road-trips, and value good times with good people, or you're simply a reader who sometimes feels alone and feel like talking to someone (about anything really: no perverts though).

• For news and updates on my opinions about The Happenings of the World (Music, Lifestyle, Food, Fashion, etc) : http://thwkokie.blogspot.co.za/ 

Please Assist - Amogelang's Wheelchair

Good day all, 

Trust that this post finds you very well.

As an ambassador for Nnusi Gazi Foundation, I am sincerely asking for your assistance with a recent project.

We received a request to provide a child suffering from Cerebral Palsy with a wheelchair. The child in question is Amogelang Rampopo aged 5, his condition denies him the use of both his hands and legs, confining him to a wheelchair. The wheelchair that he is currently using is what he got from the hospital four (4) years ago and he has outgrown it. Amogelang lives with his mother in Moruleng just outside Rustenburg (North West province in South Africa).

Cerebral Palsy Wheelchair(Positionable)

The Foundation has been out looking for the best wheelchair for Amogelang and we have been in contact with Sitwell Technologies ( http://www.sitwell.co.za/cx/index.cfm) , who have managed to help us with a custom made wheelchair for Amogelang. The cost of this is R19 000.00 as per received quotation.

Over the past 3 days we have raised R12 000.00 and I was wondering & wholeheartedly hoping if you could help us raise the difference any way you possibly can (whatever amount/donation in this regard would be highly appreciated).

Banking Details are as follows:

Bank Name : First National Bank (FNB)

Account Holder: Nnusi Gazi Foundation

Account number: 6249 4422216

Branch code: 250655

Branch name: Carlswald

Reference: NGF_(your name)

Kindly email me on kokie.molebale@gmail.com for further information and documentation for the project.

Nnusi Gazi Foundation is a registered entity with the Department of Social Development. NPO number: 123 546

Website:: http://www.nnusigazifoundation.co.za/ 

“WHAT IS LOVE, TO YOU?”

#HandsIntertwined

“WHAT IS LOVE, TO YOU?”

He said to me “I love you”...

And I smiled and said to him “I love you right back”...

I remember this slightly misty as I was drugged by some flu medication (I was completely out of it)...

But vivid in a sense that I’m able to write about it now, contently so (two days later)...

It was a Sunday evening drive from his place to mine;

Lightly cloudy, far away stars and a quarter moon showing off;

Hands intertwined, and his soft sweet kisses floating around them;

Beautiful music playing but I can barely remember what it was

However I remember him sluggishly singing along to it #Amazing

A few minutes after our “love you-love you” interchange I started dosing off.

With our hands still together I felt his lips pressing against my wrist with sweet kisses, Again;

This woke me a little and I automatically smiled but could hardly open my eyes..

(Oncoming traffic and street lights seemed rather painfully bright to my eyes).

Then I heard his voice in the darkness of my closed eyes;

In my dazed drugged up mind, it sounded like he asked: “What is Love, to you?”

I thought I was dreaming #LOL... Yet I felt completely compelled to answer this

Because in the many times he had asked me this before,

I was weirdly “Hearing” him for the first time (even though I thought it was a dream)

The words in his question dazzled and danced their way through different parts of me

I say this because seconds later I literally had Goosebumps from head to toe

And an immense persistence to truthfully and carefully manage an honest response

However, drugged as I felt, I uttered out five broad nouns to define “this” Love

Which I wholeheartedly hoped he would understand just how I actually meant them

With my eyes still closed, this is what I remember managing to say,

Feeling entirely peaceful and happy even, I said:

“Love is Freedom

Love is Satisfaction

Love is Pleasure

Love is Joy

Love is Peace”

Then the rest of my response faded in my mouth, in my mind and in my heart

Yet the tip of my tongue continued mumbling tangled words of expressions that even I had no idea what I was trying to say

Sadly I doubt he understood my meaning of this (my audible enough response),

Because he obviously couldn’t clearly hear me,

However he pardoned me and I had to say it again with my eyes slightly open

He slowly nodded thoughtfully, yet I still doubt he understood me...

I feel I was concise but not precise enough.

Following his nod I squeezed his hand, smiled and slumbered back into a drugged mode.

His words still floating in my head,

My response floating along yet in a form of lively images of rainbows, sun shines and sunsets, moonlights, roses and stars... 
#LOL (And this here I’m certain was a dream – seemed like hours but I’m sure it was only a few seconds) 

#LateNightDrives

 **Alright this shall be part of a chapter of my novel J#ONEDAY #WHENIFINISH_IT #DEFINITELY

So now I’m adding five more, which evidently faded in my answering him

But echoed right through me to this moment...:

“... Love is Support

Love is Happiness

Love is Simplicity

Love is Neutral

Love is a Choice”

My next post will thoroughly be about precise definitions to these “Love Statements”

And I have a feeling it will be interesting... Stay tuned!!

But even if you don’t I’ll share the link anyway!!!

#ThanksForReading

I would If I could...

Haven't written in a while... 

This how I feel missing someone very close and dear to my ♥,
when this distance causes nothing but sadness in my ♥, 
I simply compiled this in 4 stanzas that only I completely understand to the core... 
But perhaps you can also relate, on situations putting doubt on certain reactions following particular emotions.

I would if I could but I can’t, or maybe I can... Just one day I might let it all out 😔.

African Queen - Kokie Molie

Someone (not mentioning any names), made this for me, trying to charm charm me... Lol, its a cute gesture but hey I'm not easily taken like that...



I mean Yellow bone nyana like me, African Queen?? well I am an African and I like being regarded and treated as a Queen, so for that I'll be flattered and blush a little bit!! But if this was a "Shela" strategy, trying to hit on me and all, then LOL!! Askies my brother :)



Anyway, I'll make something nice and trendy out of it and say #CantWaitForSummer #SummerCountDown, share if you're impatiently waiting for summer ;)